Cat Cafe Redemption! >^..^<

In which I find in Beijing what I could not in Hangzhou: a cat cafe that fulfills all my hopes and dreams~

With my new work schedule I get Saturday afternoon/evening and all of Sunday off.  This doesn’t match up with the schedules of the other Au Pairs in Beijing (and there are lots), but it does allow me to make and hang out with Chinese and Expat friends outside of Lopair.

One thing I was looking forward to in Beijing was finally meeting my other Chinese penpal, Kate.  She goes to college in Beijing and we Skyped several times before I came to China.  My first week in Beijing I met Kate and some of her friends downtown to go to a language exchange meeting, and the second weekend the two of us decided to go to a cat cafe together!

The cafe that Kate recommended is in 南锣鼓巷, a very Asheville-esque shopping district with numerous winding streets lined with crafty souvenir and clothes shops, tons of food stands, cafes, and restaurants.  Really I just wanted to spend all my money right then, but I limited myself to a postcard, an envelope, a lot of window shopping, and “exploding chicken” (fried chicken filled with cheese!) for lunch.

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One of the busier streets

A pig made out of blown sugar.  I don't think I could eat something so pretty!

A pig made out of blown sugar. I don’t think I could eat something so pretty!

A simple notebook printed as an old-style Chinese math book.  One of the many things I resisted buying.

A simple notebook printed as an old-style Chinese math book. One of the many things I resisted buying.

After lunch we headed to the cat cafe which was located down one of the emptier side streets.  Such a cute place!  There were tons of cats, but most of them were napping.  They didn’t mind being petted though.

猫Lady (Cat Lady) cat cafe.  The cat out front has definitely been hired to lure in customers.

喵Lady cat cafe. The cat out front has definitely been hired to lure in customers.

Cat cafe success!

Cat cafe success!

Our over-priced drinks that do at least come with cats included.

Our over-priced drinks that do at least come with cats included.

Such a cool seating area upstairs!  Bar-style cat access.

Such a cool seating area upstairs! Bar-style cat access.

Kate and her favorite cat.  Almost all the cats were sleeping but they didn't mind being petted anyway.

Kate and her favorite cat.

Cat in the corner by the stairwell.  Is that a comfortable place to sleep...?

Cat in the corner by the stairwell. Is that a comfortable place to sleep…?

This cat sat with its back to us, unmoving, except when it occasionally turned around and gave us this dirty look.  haha

This cat sat with its back to us, unmoving, except when it occasionally turned around and gave us this dirty look. haha

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After petting every cat in the cat cafe and starting to feel sleep around so many sleepy cats, we went out again, this time to 后海, a nice lake nearby lined with music bars.

Such a wonderful day to be at the lake!

Such a wonderful day to be at the lake!

They literally had a drum circle.  Didn't I say it felt like Asheville?

They literally had a drum circle. Didn’t I say it felt like Asheville?

After a walk around the lake it was time for Kate to head back to school and me to head home.  I’m so glad I got to not just find a cat cafe, but also spend the day with Kate and see a new and awesome part of the city.

As we were leaving we spotted another cat cafe and that can only mean one thing: we have to go back!

10 Things To Do Outside on a Nice Day in Beijing

Maybe the weather turned just when I left, but Beijing is significantly cooler and dryer than Hangzhou.  For the past two weeks Beijing has also experienced the most wonderful Autumn weather and blue skies!  There are so many parks and green spaces in Beijing that I’ve filled most of my free time just going on walks exploring the different parks.img_20160903_141126_hdr

Near my apartment.

Near my apartment.

I’ve seen some unusual pastime activities here, so I thought I’d dedicate a short blog post to them.  Of course people also do obvious things like play ball, fly kites, walk dogs, take pictures, have picnics, etc.  These are some of the new things that I didn’t notice in Hangzhou, either because the culture is different or it was just too darn hot.

So, here are 10 things you can do for fun outside on a nice day in Beijing.

On a nice day in Beijing, you can…

1.

Buy a songbird from this peddler literally set up on the middle of a bridge.

Buy a songbird from this peddler literally set up on the middle of a bridge.

2.

Spin a top by hitting it with a very loud whip.

Spin a top by hitting it with a very loud whip.

3.

Watch what must be a very exciting game of Chinese chess.

Watch what must be a very exciting game of Chinese chess.

4.

Try your luck at this golden egg smashing tent and try to win a new iphone.

Try your luck at this golden egg smashing tent and try to win a new iphone.

5.

Salsa dance in the plaza (I've seen every kind of dancing now, surely!)

Salsa dance in the plaza (I’ve seen every kind of dancing now, surely!)

6.

Bargain for trinkets big or small at this outdoor market.

Bargain for trinkets big or small at this outdoor market.

The market is huge!  Use my new friend Agata for scale.

The market is huge! Use my new friend Agata for scale.

I impulse bought this fish purse... turns out he's the perfect shape for carrying my water bottle!

I impulse bought this fish purse… turns out he’s the perfect shape for carrying my water bottle!

7.

Join this Mahjong tournament happening across from my apartment.

Join this Mahjong tournament happening across from my apartment.

I only watched and chatted this time, but this could be the start of my gambling addiction...

I only watched and chatted this time, but this could be the start of my gambling addiction…

8.

Practice Chinese Yoyo.  I wasn't convinced this was actually a Chinese thing until I saw this guy.

Practice Chinese Yoyo. I wasn’t convinced this was actually a Chinese thing until I saw this guy.

9.

Join a drum circle.

Join a drum circle.

10.

Swim in the lake.

Swim in the lake.

Well, does that look like fun?  Is it time to start planning your retirement in Beijing?

Beijing: More Than a Visit

In which, after two busy weeks in Beijing, I share a taste of my new home and host family.

Whelp, after my 6 day vacation in Shenzhen I got on an evening flight back to Hangzhou, then only had time to consolidate all of my belongings into my large suitcase and get some sleep before catching a morning high speed train the next day to Beijing to go meet my new host family.

In a way I’ve come full circle since I first landed in Beijing with my study abroad group 4 months ago.  However, visiting the most famous parts of a city and actually living there are two different experiences.

Beijing is significantly North of Hangzhou.  I've traced my train route on the map.

Beijing is significantly North of Hangzhou. I’ve traced my train route on the map. 

Beijing

Beijing (北京) is the capital city of modern China.  Unlike other modern cities like Shenzhen and Shanghai it also holds a lot of historical significance.  It’s also huge.  Luckily my new home is near the city center so it’s pretty convenient to get around.

The city of Beijing is shaped like a spider web, with the Forbidden City in the center.

The city of Beijing is shaped like a spider web, with the Forbidden City in the center.  The city grows like a tree, forming a new ring with each new highway bypass.

If you’ve watched the cartoon TV show called Avatar: The Last Airbender, you’ll notice that the fictional city of Ba Sing Se was obviously modeled off of Beijing.  The city rings are formed by super highways, not walls (though the Great Wall isn’t too far away) but the royal palace still resides in the first ring and I can still use my imagination for the rest!

There are also tons of expats here.  I see them just on the street riding their bicycles, with their kids on the playground, hanging out in the mall, riding the bus, etc.  This foreigner sighting experience only happened about once every 3 weeks in Hangzhou!  I’m still not used to it yet.  Should I go say hi?  Should I speak in English or Chinese?  Would that be weird?

Meet my new host family

My new host family has two boys: Mingming (age 8) and Lele (age 5).  Their family has had an almost constant stream of Au Pairs since 2012 so they’re pretty much experts (both on hosting an Au Pair and in their English level).  Their last Au Pair, Sandy, was from Italy and left only a couple months ago.

Keeping with the Ba Sing Se theme, I like to think of myself as the Avatar, the latest Au Pair incarnation.  After all, if I need advice I can contact my previous incarnations (the family’s previous Au Pairs) via Wechat.

Mingming (left) and Lele (right) were excited to see the bunny rabbit at this event booth.

Mingming (left) and Lele (right) were excited to see the bunny rabbit at this event booth.

Their English isn’t perfect of course but it is fluent and they already have a large vocabulary.  Totally different ball game than I played in Hangzhou, but it’s easier to adjust when you can already communicate with the kids freely.  They love doing crafts, playing make believe, Curious George, telling stories, and being read to in general.  Mingming loves listening to me read the Mrs. Piggle Wiggle short stories I brought (pages go by without pictures!) and Lele loves the Spider-Man comic book I brought (explaining 1980’s American slang to a Chinese 5 year old isn’t nearly as daunting as it sounds.)

Admiring my Spider-Man comics.  I got them from the bargain bin and they were disintegrating in the attic at home so I brought them to China with me to share a little bit of American culture before they turn to dust.

Admiring my Spider-Man comics. I got them from the bargain bin in the U.S.  They were disintegrating in the attic at home so I brought them to China with me as gifts to share a little bit of American culture before they turn to dust.

Unlike in Hangzhou, my work schedule is pretty set.  I walk Mingming to school every morning, then pick him up at 3:30pm to go home.  Lele is gone at Kindergarten for about the same amount of time and sometimes I’m responsible for picking him up as well.  Mingming has homework to do in the evenings but I’m playing with one or both kids from the time I pick them up until bedtime every weekday.  At least for the time being, their schedules aren’t crammed with extracurriculars like Jonny’s was.  I get Saturday afternoons/evenings and all of Sunday off.

Welcome Back! balloons at Mingming's school on his first day.

Welcome Back! balloons at Mingming’s school on his first day of the school year.  He started school pretty much the day after I arrived.

The parents are great and experienced with communicating with Au Pairs.  Wendy (their mother) doesn’t work so she’s home taking care of the kids with me dependably, and their dad is busy at work a lot but fills the house with enthusiasm when he’s home.

The grandparents on the dad’s side also live with us in the apartment.  They don’t speak any English of course, but that gives me the opportunity to practice Mandarin at home.  Grandpa (not Grandma) is the main cook in the house and I absolutely love his roasted potatoes and caramelized onions!  The pair leave to go dance and sing and do other social activities at about 5:30am every morning and sometimes go out again in the evening.

Beijing is my new home now, and I’ve settled in pretty well, considering the circumstances.  I can’t say that I don’t miss my old family in Hangzhou still, but I couldn’t wish for a better second home.  Due to the nice weather I’ve gone out a lot the past few weeks and have a lot more to share but will save those stories for their own blog post.  Stay tuned!

How Do You Write That In Chinese? (汉字怎么写?)

I’ve gotten a few questions about learning to read and write Chinese script, so since I’m sitting on a train all day today traveling to Beijing, I might as well take the chance to write another informational piece before things get crazy again.

Old men writing Chinese calligraphy with water on the plaza pavement. Everyone has a hobby.

Old men writing Chinese calligraphy with water on the plaza pavement. Everyone has a hobby.

The Basics

Chinese language does not have a corresponding alphabet, but instead is written in characters that are neither phonetic nor pictorial, though there are hints of both.  This means that characters that look similar often have similar meanings or pronunciations, but not always.

An example:  Meet the female radical; it looks like this: 女  By itself it forms a character that means “woman”.  However, you will often see this shape as a familiar component of other characters.  For example, the words for “sister” contain it:  姐姐(older sister) and 妹妹(younger sister).  The pronunciations of these other words are unrelated, but the pictorial element remains for helpful association.

Now let’s look at the word for “horse”: 马 (pronounced ma)This radical reappears in other characters as a phonetic component.

Now let’s look at one more word: 妈妈.  Just based on what we know of the character components, it will not be a surprise to learn that this word means “mother” and is pronounced as mama.

That’s not to say you can read characters or meanings you’ve never learned before, but it does mean that there are hints of rhyme and reason in the script.  Also, complicated characters are easier to write and remember since they contain familiar components.

With few exceptions, each character has one pronunciation that is one syllable long.  A Chinese word can consist of one or more characters, but you’re not getting any hints there since the script is written without putting spaces between words.  Two characters may have separate meanings by themselves, but form a new word when combined.

Example:  The Chinese word for “immediately” is written 马上 (mashang).  上by itself means “up” or “previous”.  The only way to know that the characters belong together as one word is the context.

Pinyin: Filling the gap between reading and speaking

The life-saver for foreigners learning Chinese is Pinyin.  This is a relatively new invention and serves as a substitute phonetic guide to pronouncing Chinese words.  Pinyin is simply a consistent (and I mean 100% consistent) system for mapping Chinese sounds to the Roman alphabet.  Whenever you see Chinese words spelled out, this is what you are actually looking at.  If you try to pronounce these words with English spelling rules you will probably say it wrong, but if you know the rules of Pinyin and the tone is marked, you will always say it right!

Pinyin is not a substitute for the Chinese writing system as different words/characters often have identical pronunciations.  However, Pinyin is what makes it possible to type Chinese characters on a QWERTY keyboard, so Chinese people use the system daily even though Pinyin is never read as a script itself.

Example:  Below I’ve written the simple sentence “Today I’m going to Beijing.” in both Pinyin and Chinese characters.  The Pinyin helps show which characters should be grouped together to form longer words and provides the correct pronunciation (though I can’t add the tones on my keyboard), but does not guarantee the unambiguous meaning that the Chinese version does.  The Pinyin version is also what I typed on my computer to produce the Chinese characters.

Jintian wo qu Beijing.

今天我去北京。

Words and Characters out in the Wilds of China

So, suppose you’re out in the wilds of China, perhaps trying to communicate with your Chinese little brother, and you come across the pronunciation of a word you’ve never heard before, or perhaps you do know it but have never seen the character written down before.  What do you do?  Well, based on the pronunciation you can look it up in your Chinese dictionary by searching the Pinyin pronunciation.  Just based on an accurate pronunciation of the word and a little bit of context, you can find the corresponding Chinese characters and the English translation.  Whew.  That was easy enough!

But now suppose that you come across a Chinese character you’ve never seen before, maybe you found it on a street sign or menu.  You can’t look it up based on Pinyin, in fact you can’t even ask what it means in a direct way since you have no idea how to pronounce it.

Never fear, though, because this is surely the problem that touchscreen computers were invented to solve!  The Chinese dictionary app of choice for foreigners is called Pleco.  Using this app, not only can you look up words based on English input and Chinese Pinyin, you can also literally draw out the character that has you stumped and look it up based on shape.

Example:

A wild Chinese character appears! You can guess what it means, but you want to make sure and actually learn now to say it.

A wild Chinese character appears! You can guess what it means, but you want to make sure your guess is right and actually learn now to say the word.

Transcribe the mystery character. Even if you're sloppy, the app is good at guessing.

Transcribe the mystery character. Even if you’re sloppy, the app is good at guessing.

Now you've got the pinyin, character, and translation! For nuts like me you now have the option of saving the entry as a flashcard to study later.

Now you’ve got the pinyin (including tone), character, and translation! For nuts like me you now have the option of saving the dictionary entry as a flashcard to study and practice writing later.

Reading vs. Writing

The glory and convenience of pinyin and modern technology, though, is also a problem.  The truth is that it’s much easier to recognize characters than it is to produce them from memory.  Using a pinyin keyboard is fast, but it reduces the opportunity for writing practice.  As a result, I (like many foreigners) can type and read much better than I can write.  This is partly preference, though, as I prefer to put my efforts into speaking practice rather than writing practice.

If you want to go totally overboard on writing Chinese, there's always calligraphy!

If you want to go totally overboard on writing Chinese, there’s always calligraphy!

The texts reads "杭州你好“ (Hello Hangzhou). The beautiful top sheet is Wendy's handwriting, the bottom one is my novice attempt. The blue one is my Chinese name (a gift from Wendy).

The texts reads “杭州你好” /Hangzhou ni hao (Hello Hangzhou). The beautiful top sheet is Wendy’s handwriting, the wobbly bottom one is my novice attempt. The blue one is my Chinese name (a gift from Wendy).

So, there’s a peep into what it’s like to learn to read and write Chinese.  It’s not easy of course and it’s a slow process, but it’s also not impossible.

Let me know if you’d like me to do more of these informational pieces and what topics you’re interested in.  I like doing them but this is the first one I’ve done since arriving in China.

Celebrating my graduation by… going to a university?

In which I go out again and take more pretty pictures (with cooler weather and less mountains this time).

It was the last day of my Shenzhen vacation but my flight wasn’t until 5:45pm, so Elena and I had plenty of time to go adventuring yet again before I had to leave.  The manager of our hostel had mentioned to me that nearby Shenzhen University had a beautiful campus so we headed there.  We were in luck because the weather was actually cool and overcast and stayed that way the entire day.

After a little confusion about how to enter the main campus (at the top of a small cliff from where we exited the subway), we found our way in and headed for a lake on the map.  The campus was indeed nice.

What are these four-legged creatures grazing on the golf course? My guess is that they work here.

What are these four-legged creatures grazing on the golf course? My guess is that they work here.

We found the lake! Elena's pretending she's in Miami.

We found the lake! Elena’s pretending she’s in Miami.

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So many flowers in bloom!

So many flowers in bloom!

Lake selfie

Lake selfie

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We also found a wetland garden. I finally got a decent picture of a lotus blossom!

We also found a wetland garden. I finally got a decent picture of a lotus blossom!

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I also located the international student dorm. Much nicer facilities than the domestic kind and McDonald's delivery outside. Typical.

I also located the international student dorm. Much nicer facilities than the domestic kind and McDonald’s delivery outside. Typical.

After a convenience store snack, we looked back at the map and noticed a large park not far away.  Since we still had time and the weather was lovely we headed there next.

The park turned out to be a botanical gardens with different sections. This place was particularly nice to walk through.

The park turned out to be a botanical gardens with different sections. This place was particularly nice to walk through.

Happy grass

Smiling grass

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Pretty great way to spend my last few hours in Shenzhen and get some exercise before sitting in an airport, on a plane, in a taxi, in my bed in Hangzhou (for the last time), and then all day on a train the next day.  There wasn’t anything particularly special about the parks we visited, only that they were nearby.  China is full of beautiful green spaces.

My classmates at UNC Asheville just started their Fall semester (my first semester not joining them since I graduated).  Do I miss it?  Eh, not yet anyway.

Jurassic Park (China Edition)

In which I go explore the local parks and find some dinosaurs

Shenzhen typically has an unbearably hot and humid climate that rivals Hangzhou during the summer months, but we had been somewhat lucky as the weather had recently been cool and actually bearable when the sun was behind the clouds.  Shenzhen is full of parks and Jade had recommended one to me that wasn’t far from the hostel, so Elena made a day trip of it.

The lake that we were hoping for when we discovered the abandoned roller coaster!

Hey look, it’s the lake that we were hoping for when we stumbled upon the abandoned roller coaster!  Thanks Jade for putting us back on track!

This was a sculpture park as much as anything else

This was a sculpture park as much as anything else

Nice little lily pond

Nice little lily pond

Elena and her new pal

Elena and her new pal

What, I know this one! It's the wonky red thing that is Qingdao's icon for some reason.

What, I know this one! It’s the wonky red thing that is Qingdao’s icon for some reason.

Found a ship

Found a ship

Loving the tropical plant life.

Loving the tropical plant life.

Not sure of the function of this labyrinth, but since no one is watching I'm going to climb on it.

Not sure of the function of this labyrinth, but since no one is watching I’m going to climb on it.

I have become part of the sculpture!

I have become part of the sculpture!

Followed the signs for the "overlook" and discovered we were hiking up a mountain and had actually passed above the pagoda. Must be a great view, though, right? Um... nope. We reached the top, but no overlook to be found. Do we climb a tree or something?

Followed the signs for the “overlook” and discovered we were hiking up a mountain and had actually passed above the pagoda. Must be a great view, though, right? Um… nope. We reached the top, but no overlook to be found. Do we climb a tree or something?

Hiked from the Overlook Of Disappointment down to the pagoda. The sun had come out so we chilled in the pagoda itself.

Hiked from the Overlook Of Disappointment down to the pagoda. The sun had come out so we chilled in the pagoda itself.

Cool art on the ceiling

Cool art on the ceiling

The pagoda was so tall that this was the best picture I could get. Wish we could have climbed up inside.

The pagoda was so tall that this was the best picture I could get. Wish we could have climbed up inside.

After sweating sufficiently on our hike we headed over the the dinosaur exhibit which promised air conditioning.

After sweating sufficiently on our hike we headed over the the dinosaur exhibit which promised air conditioning.

The dinosaur exhibit happened to be mostly a display of a collection of crystals which was interesting.  The dinosaurs themselves were cool too, though most of the signs were in Chinese only.  Some of them moved though which was cool!

What does that red ribbon mean? Nothing, apparently. Grandma is helping the grand kids ride the dino...

What does that red ribbon mean? Nothing, apparently. Grandma is helping the grand kids ride the dino…

Everybody run!!!

Everybody run!!!

We were sufficiently hot and exhausted by the time we returned to the hostel (there was another half of the park we didn’t even get to!) but we enjoyed our little tropical adventure in Shenzhen.

My Friend is Real!

In which I meet a Chinese stranger I found on the internet.

I have a confession to make.  It’s true that I’ve been traveling by myself this week because I have a single-entry Chinese visa and couldn’t go with my family in Hangzhou on vacation, but I came to Shenzhen in particular because I met a Chinese stranger online, she sent me pictures of food, and I wanted to meet her in person.

Meet my friend Jade.  She grew up in the northernmost part of China (North of Harbin, bordering Russia).  Now she’s moved for work down to one of the southernmost cities in the country: Shenzhen.  She makes regular trips into Hong Kong and likes the food there.  She bakes cookies for her friends, picks lychee with her mother, and her favorite flavor of ice cream is durian flavored (you know, from Dairy Queen!)  She’s divorced.  She loves the pictures I send her of my cat at home and tells me that although she doesn’t have any cats, she wants to get one and had one when she was little.  She won’t send me a picture of herself because she thinks she’s fat.

This a good sampling of what I knew about Jade before I booked my plane ticket to Shenzhen.  Do you remember when I mentioned the website called My Language Exchange in one of my very first blog posts?  I met Jade on that website over a year ago (back when I was just starting to put meaningful sentences together on my own in Chinese, after my second semester of Mandarin) and we’ve been exchanging emails ever since.

I booked this particular Airbnb because it was close to the address she’d given me.  Turns out it was her work address, but that was just as well as it meant the place I was staying was in an interesting part of the city (instead of apartments as far as the eye can see in every direction) and it also meant that when Jade got off work early on Friday, we could go eat dinner together!

We planned to meet at the metro station nearest me.  Luckily she recognized me because to this point I still didn’t know what she looked like…  She found me alright and we walked together to a restaurant not too far away.

Eating durian pizza with Jade

Eating durian pizza with Jade

Ultimate fusion pizza

Ultimate fusion pizza

Afterwards we went to the mall, walked around, played in the arcade, and got drinks.

Afterwards we went to the mall, walked around, played in the arcade, and got drinks.

Having way too much fun in the kiddie arcade with Jade.

Having way too much fun in the kiddie arcade with Jade.

When we first met online Jade obviously had better written English than I had Chinese, but after I came to China and our email exchanges devolved into Wechat texts, our conversations shifted almost exclusively into Chinese.  I knew Jade’s written English was decent, but had no idea what to expect of her speaking skills.

As it turned out Jade is a very talkative person, but for the entire evening we never shifted into English.  Oh well, it was good practice for me and sometimes it’s easier not to switch back and forth.

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Jade wasn’t the only friend I met up with in Shenzhen!  I also met up with my Chinese friend Sophie, which was a pleasant surprise.  Sophie and I first met at FEE conference for college students in Atlanta, GA several years ago (before I even started studying Chinese).  Then, about 2 years ago Sophie came up from Florida with her boyfriend (now husband) to visit Asheville and I met them for dinner.  Now she’s back in China working in nearby Guangzhou, so she took a day trip to Shenzhen to have lunch with me!

Hanging out with Sophie on the opposite side of the globe from where we first met.

Hanging out with Sophie on the opposite side of the globe from where we first met.

Roberta and I went to the science museum together.  The whole place was full of interactive exhibits for kids, but the coolest was this marble machine in the lobby.

Roberta and I went to the science museum together. The whole place was full of interactive exhibits for kids, but the coolest was this marble machine in the lobby.

I also met up with one other Au Pair that I’d met at my orientation, Roberta (from Italy).

Also met up with Roberta, another Au Pair.  We're admiring the Terracotta Warriors stationed in this underground shopping center.

Roberta and I are admiring the Terracotta Warriors stationed in this underground shopping center.

Pretty much everyone I’ve told that I went to Shenzhen on vacation gave me the response “Why would you go there?  It’s just a big modern city without much history to it.  China has so many interesting places!”  They’ve got a point of course, but I came to Shenzhen to see people, not places.  I went on vacation to relax, not to wear myself out.  In those respects my vacation has been very successful and Shenzhen was the perfect place to go!